December 7, 2010

Thank you, lchris

Posting here what I just posted on the susan-boyle forum, in case it get deleted

Thank you again, lchris, for so many things, the best of which was becoming my friend, and remaining so through hard times.  The next best was sharing my vision that this site could be a democratic non-profit run by and for fans.  That vision has not been shared by everyone. Even if the former monarch abdicated his throne, there is still the conflict between democracy and aristocracy, which exists everywhere.

Every person on the Board owes her or his position to you.  The non-profit was finally registered during the turmoil immediately following July 18.  We had a very brief window of opportunity to get things moving, so there was no time for elections.  You and I hand-picked every member of the Board, trying to keep our promise to give the majority of seats to the staff (most of whom had abandoned ship at that time), and also individuals from among the members who we thought were unbiased enough to represent all of us.  In order to keep our promise, we included staff members who had publicly called us liars just days before and a general member who has just now called you a liar, after removing your access to  the backup data needed to prove your point..  So if you (the collective you, not lchris) don’t like the Board, blame it on us.

You have tracked & opposed the cyber-bully/cyber-stalker at every point, unearthing his many aliases (24 on this site alone.).  With no further access to the back end, of course you will not be able to warn members against him in the future as you have in the past, That will allow everyone to follow the advice given to the Board by Sony’s legal staff (which PT told us she had solicited) to just ignore him while he goes about his dirty work.  Fortunately you were able to document his prior activities, and turn that data over to the police.  Subsequent attempts to alter that data can’t change the original backups.

Most people will never know what you gave up to keep this site alive and well.  You lost 6 months of your life.  Working here instead of at your own business, missing your bike riding & kayaking, not getting to watch your most favorite sporting event, the World Cup, losing precious time with your international friends on the rare occasions they could
come to see you.  So much, so much.  A perfunctory paragraph of gratitude does not begin to do you justice.  Fortunately, tears on a keyboard don’t do as much damage as they do to paper; otherwise I would have to throw away the sheet & start over again.

So, was it worth it?  Did we accomplish what we set out to do?  No.  Not now.  Maybe someday.  Maybe never.  But you have accomplished other things along the way, and  I know you will continue to do so.  You can rest from the duties you took up to save this site.  Sometimes detours open up wonders the main road would never let us experience.  For all of us here, and on every site for Susan, remember,  “When the world comes in to build a wall between us, you know they won’t win”.

7 comments:

  1. Bravo!!!

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  2. Well said Dyebat. I hope in the end it will have been worth it. You, lchris and CL had done a remarkable job trying to keep things honest and transparent. Bravo to the three of you.

    "Man prefers to believe what he prefers to be true." Francis Bacon

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  3. Dyebat, you and lChris have my deepest admiration, as does Citroenlady as well. The three of you are remarkable women and your unceasing efforts to do what is right, honorable and ethical, as well as your persistence in attempting to provide a fan site worthy of being associated with Susan Boyle are commendable. Your courage and steadfastness have me in awe.

    Thank you, Dyebat, lChris and Citroenlady.....

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  4. Well as the tears flow for the depth to which I feel touched by Lchris' sterling effort, by Dyebat's remarkable perseverance, by CL's unstinting support and by Knudt's sharp eye and sharp pen at trying to set the records straight.

    I doubt there is a winner or a loser here but one thing I know for sure: My God the four of you can hold your heads up high and go back to your village - with a millions yeses ringing in your heads!!!

    Thank you so much all four of you, not just for your unfailing love and support to Susan Boyle, this remarkable and wonderful wee wifey from Blackburn, not only for remaining true and authentic under virtually impossible circumstances but also and perhaps mostly for reminding any of us who may be open to it that there are still decent, loving, ethical and honest people in this world.

    To the four of you: THANK YOU!!!

    With my love and respect,
    Janaki

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  5. What can I say that has not been aid much better than I can?
    Thank dyebat for writing this truth from the heart. You an lchris did what you know to be honest and trusting. You were dealing with people that dabble in the gray aria. You spend hours and hours of your time for Susan's fans and that in turn was a gift to Susan. I thank you for all your work and courage.
    whispe

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  6. I appreciate both you Dyebat and LChris. You have my full support in the days ahead. I know this is a sad day for many of us but better days are coming. I still think a new Dyebat/LChris forum is in order with many fans joining.
    Hint.. hint.

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  7. Dyebat, I have a couple of suggestions regarding the "List of Susan Boyle Fansites" post by LChris. I don't see anywhere else to submit suggetions, so I'm going to leave a comment here.

    First, I think it's a great idea to have a list like this, and want to suggest that you create a "Page" for it, to be linked at the top of the site. You can create up to ten "Pages" in Blogger; they're generally used for information you want to keep permanently "up top," such as an "About Us" or "Contact" information page. As another example, on a private blog I have for my son, one of my "Pages" is labeled "Recipes," as a categorized index of blog posts with recipes, available for his ready reference. Another "Page" is labled "Calendar" and had an itinerary for my visit to San Francisco this past summer.

    Second, regarding the site categories themselves, the classifications of "Open" and "Closed" are a bit confusing. "Closed" might suggest the forum is no longer open and being used. Maybe use "Private" or "Members Only" or something like that?

    Also, the Susan Boyle Fansite Forum isn't really "Open" in the sense of being readable by non-members. I'm not sure if you're suggesting that it's easier to become a new member than at a "Closed" (members are screened) forum?

    How about just list all forums as "Discussion Forums" and the people following the links can then figure out from there if they have to join before reading.

    Thanks again to you and LChris for this blog and for the openness you are encouraging among the members of Susan's fandom.

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